Send help 🥺

Y’all… am I the only one that feels like their boyfriend isn’t right for them??

Like my boyfriend is fantastic, he really spoils me and takes care of me. But it’s just missing something. There’s no spark.

We have only been together for a month officially and I thought it would be great, since our talking period was well over a year and we were really vibing . Is it just because the shiny new phase is already over? Like it ended before the relationship even started?

Idk if it’s because I’m extremely insecure and anxious due to past experiences, or maybe it has to do with my depression. I was on tiktok and saw that he recently followed a few really pretty girls with much prettier faces and bodies than mine and it honestly hurt my heart. We have zero sexual chemistry.. like he can’t even get aroused for me and it makes me feel like he doesn’t even find me attractive.

I’m really not sure if it’s just me going through a rough patch or if this relationship is already doomed for a poor outcome 🥺 he’s such a nice guy, but I don’t want to keep someone else’s soulmate from them ya know? And I want to really be in love and be in a relationship with someone that I’m actually a good fit for.

Please send advice, I’m really not sure what I should do.