How to start over as a single mom

Hi everyone,

My husband and I are in our 20s, we have been married for almost a year (next month) and have a 7mo old baby.

We have been having problems and he says he wants to fix them, but when things stress him out, he takes his anger out on me (he’ll say mean things) and I know I have also said lots of mean things to him but honestly, I’ve been really trying to be a better wife lately and he was doing very good too as far as trying to be a better husband.

Well recently, he’s been saying hurtful things to me like saying that I can’t help him feel better about his problems (his dad is very ill and his grandma passed away the other day)

He’s saying that only is family makes him feel comfortable and not lonely, and our baby too. He told me that I make him feel lonely.

He’s in the Air Force and we have a beautiful home on base and he’s been able to provide so I can stay home and raise our baby.

I honestly think that I need to divorce him, though because of how mean he is to me sometimes and how he takes stress out on me and just says nasty things.

I am very comfortable as I have everything I need and so does our baby, but, it’s not enough for me to stay in this marriage.

Im very scared to move forward as a single mom if I end up divorcing him.

I would really appreciate some advice from you ladies.