Don't know where to post this

So my husband and I got in a fight just arguing. And the first thing he blurted out is I'll get the papers ready before I can even finish what I was saying fast-forward to last week he's like well it just be a waste of paperwork to get a divorce anyways. I asked him what's that supposed to mean and he didn't answer but I'm not stupid like all on all what dooes he mean by that. Remind you there is 3 minor kids and I'm the one that does all their IEPs and school stuff and docs appointments. Someone please put an input please?