Telling parents I am pregnant too soon 😬

I am currently 7 weeks pregnant with my second child. I had a miscarriage with my last pregnancy and my parents are aware of it.

Well we live far away from my parents and we only see them a few times a year.

My dad just called asking to come down in 2 weeks for his birthday. Yay!!! Super excited to see my parents.

I will be 9 weeks pregnant when they come. Do I announce my pregnancy then? If I don’t, then I will have to announce it via phone call 🙁

I am at a loss!!! The old me wouldn’t even hesitate to tell them. But since having a miscarriage in the past (at 7 weeks) is the only reason I am apprehensive.

And here is the bigger dilemma, if we announce it to them at 9 weeks we will have to tell our daughter (4 years old) and my step son (14 years old) a few days before they get here. That’s a big risk!! Ahhhhhhh I am so unsure what to do.