I am very upset lately

Lately I been visiting my older sister and her family couple of times, and things just change for the worst and I got a new phone and her husband went though my old phone and going through all my personal stuff like my photos, my apps like this one and deleted some apps without telling me, and I cry myself to sleep.

And keeps asking me about my phone again, before Christmas and I cry again and I was so mad and he keeps giving me a evil eye at me.

And he almost burned down My family house while cooking and he ruined my kitchen aid mixer and the motor is running down and the mixers are bent.

And on March, me and my family went on my neice gymnastics event and he stand behind me and I was recording my neice on video and starting yelling behind my ear very loud and my ear starting to ring very bad, and hurt too.

I swear and pray that my older sister needs to drivoce this dumbass.

Plus something is very fishy that they planned to move far away from family and looking at expensive homes and I think it's completely Bullcrap.