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1. You lie theoughout your whole marriage 2. You cheat throughout your whole marriage3. You expose your spouse to stds4. You risking a baby not knowing who its fathers is5. You dont know if you should tell your husband youre a active sex worker who may be carrying another mans babyIm done with glow for today. I cant…. nope… not today.
Should I tell him?
Update:I told him and he beat me senseless…my jaw is broken,both of my eyes are almost shut,I’ve been bleeding since it happened, I’m sure it is probably no baby at this point, my ribs hurt so bad , I’m numb, confused, and I can’t work like this…,he told me he had already told his parents and that his sister has told him what I was doing but that he stood up for me…I feel terrible…I didn’t think he would lose his cool on me especially while pregnant…
For 4 years I’ve been married to a wonderful man. And I have been in the sex working business for 6. I moved to another state but Continued my work. Since I was new he didn’t know me and I worked 2 towns over than where we lived. Well I’m newly pregnant right now and I had a John that slid off the condom but we also been ttc for a year now. I have no idea who I’m pregnant for as the John is a regular of mines…should I tell him I’m pregnant and it might be for my regular John? He has no idea about the sex work and thinks that I’m a nurse because I cater to that kink in my sex work…please don’t judge me…fast money is addicting
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I’m sorry to see the outcome and regardless of how wrong you were, violence never should have happened and I would press charges. Before you enter into another relationship, you need to understand that honesty is necessary in order for a relationship to survive. How would you feel if he lied to you the entire time and got someone else pregnant? It doesn’t excuse the abuse but what you did was definitely wrong.
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I completely stand by what I said. Until that update, everyone was saying how wrong she was. I literally told her to press charges on the guy.
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Did I say there was a reason to beat her? No, I did not. I do not condone violence. I also do not condone lying to one's significant other and putting their health at risk through undisclosed promiscuity. He had no knowledge of it, so he could neither consent nor walk away from a relationship he may not have wanted to stay in given the circumstances. He was 100% wrong to beat her. That is never the correct or acceptable response, no matter the offense. She was wrong to lie and hide her sexual activities from him. You can take issue with the word "but" if you like, but the OP isn't getting a pass from me for lying to her husband for years and deliberately putting his health in danger to make money. He is also not getting a pass from me for beating her to a pulp. He should be in prison for that, full stop.
da
There should be no BUT.. To either one of your responses tbh. Yes, she was wrong. She admits that and recognizes this. There is never a reason to beat her how he did. The fact that your both said sorry for the outcome BUT.. Is truthfully disgusting.
Pleqse come clean to him about everything . If this was you in this position & tables flipped you would want him to come clean. Plus it’s rude to TTC & have that as your job without him knowing .. he had the rights to decide if he wanted to stay & try etc. its about respect! it’s better to come clean now before things get WAY WORSE. Good luck🤞🏼
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Oh my God, girl go get some medical attention if you haven't yet! That was an uncalled for reaction on his end and I'm sorry that it happened. Physically abusing someone isn't an equal reaction to cheating. Moving forward i think it's worth mentioning your line of work to your partners, and I hope this doesn't happen to you again in the future. Good luck with everything and I hope you heal up soon.
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