My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year. We decided that since we both are in our 30s it was time to try to conceive. (We’ve been friends forever) The problem is… we almost never have sex. I can count on one hand the amount of times we’ve had sex. He has some performance issues so we have tried to be creative and find ways. Every time we attempt sex it ends up in a argument.

IE: I’m fertile, we were getting hot and heavy and he couldn’t keep it up, said we would try again later…. Then we argued about it after I told him I was frustrated… I expressed that I am allowed to have feelings..

I use to be such a sexual person and enjoy sex so much, but now I want nothing to do with it. What do I do to get it all back? How do we get past this.