I'm currently pregnant with #3, my second will be 21 months when my new baby arrives. I'm so nervous about how I will be able to manage things. My bf will only have a week off to help full time and my family is 45 mins-1hour away and they are working same time as my bf anyway. My one year old is super clingy and is hard to handle by herself most days. The closer it gets the more worried I am. I'm also worried about leaving my 1yo with someone while I go have this baby because she is sooo attached and we've never left her with anyone for more than a few hours. Any advice or encouragement from moms who have had 2 under 2?

My 1st and 2nd are 9 years apart so this is a whole different experience for me.