Idk if my son is gay, gay or just gay because he hates women

I have a 15 year old son who hates women. Yeah. I've posted about him once. And it's kind of my fault why. I was a bad mom. With bad friends. I did bad things and people in my life did bad things to abuse him. He was in foster care the longest and then his foster father sexually assaulted him and the judge who found him not guilty was a female. My son made in very clear to me he hates women. He thinks they are bitches whores and do nothing but hurt people. I have him in therapy. He doesn't respect me or have respect for women and I can only blame myself. His therapist is a male and right now I don't even think they've really discussed his trauma yet. I raised concerns with his therapist that I'm scared he will grow up to be an abuser.... and ig he heard me.... Because in the car he told me and said that I don't care about him. I just care about some future girlfriend or wife he will never have and think he's abusive. I told him I don't think he's abusive. I'm scared he will become abusive then he said "Oh like you". And I knew to shut up. He then said "Besides. I already told you I'm not dating bitches. I like guys". He told me he never wanted to date women or get married. He never told me he liked guys and idk if he really likes guy or just really hates women.

MrsRoster honestly... I'm wondering if it's too late to fix things... Idk I'm just wondering if he needs a different female figure in his life because I'm thinking it may be too late to fix this relationship and being around me is a reminder of why he hates women. This isn't me throwing in the towel but I'm seriously wondering if being back with me does more harm than good