Break up with long term bf?

So my bf and I have been dating for the past 5 years. We recently moved in together last summer and since then our relationship has become complicated. He never helps me around the apartment with cooking or cleaning and he always gets annoyed if I ask him to help with something. We both have busy jobs but whenever he gets home he never wants to spend time with me and instead just stays on his phone and watches tv. He also goes back to our hometown where his family lives that is an hour and a half away every weekend and will never spend a weekend with me even if I beg him to. He has probably spent one whole weekend with me in the past 10 months. I have recently caught him lying to me and being secretive about what he is doing. He has been hanging out with guys that aren’t the best to be around and doing drugs with them and lying to my face about it for months. I still don’t trust him and feel like he still lies to me. I feel like he doesn’t give me the time of day or actually cares to spend time with me. I feel really lonely even though he lives here with me it feels like now he is more of a roommate than a boyfriend..and I try to communicate all of this to him and try to fix it but he always acts like it’s no big deal & I’m just over reacting. I don’t know what to do because I love him and want to be with him and I am trying everything to make it work and I just need someone else’s opinion.