Shitty Easter!

Well Thai morning started out crabby, my 7 yr old woke up at 1:45am with ear pain so I have him medication and he didn’t want to go back to his bed just incase it got worse (he gets ear infection easy) so he moved to out bed to sleep next to his dad and I moved to the couch. Well it’s not 8:30am and we have been up since 7:15am when our 15 yr old woke up and then 7:30 when our son woke up and woke his dad up saying the Easter bunny came and that was a bad idea I guess, after the kids went to the living room and I put my bedding away from sleeping on the couch I asked “Can the kids look for their baskets” he got all pissed off and started bitching at me saying “Fuck you” “you don’t care I’m hanging issues today” (it’s his moms birthday, she passed away almost 17 yrs ago) and I told him I’m not going to be treating like shit cuz he decided to stay up yet again like every weekend past midnight drinking and getting drunk, so now he’s all pissed off slamming doors he opens and closes, mad at me cuz he can’t hear out one of his ear cuz he just getting over a sinus infection and everything is draining, I’m suppose to treat him like he’s dying but when I had covid and literally sicker them a dog, running a fever of 103 and low oxygen I was suppose to do shit around the house still and he was pissed off at me cuz he had to miss work cuz of it (our oldest had covid too) and saying I don’t know how to take care of myself that’s why I got it, so I told him today I don’t know why you have to be in a pissy mood o know what day it is and I’ve asked how many time do we want to go to her grave since it’s only a 6 min drive and like every year it’s a “we can do it another day” that day never happens cuz all he wants to do on his days off is drunk and treat me like shit.