Is this narcissism?

I'll try to keep it short. Basically I'm 22 and at home for college due to personal stuff. I'm just wondering if I'm the problem or if my parents are or both. My parents hide Easter baskets every year, I participate just because my younger siblings are young enough to enjoy it still and ig I feel like I need to since my family enjoys it. Anyway, my family has this weird way of making fun of people for things and then not always understanding when to stop, at least regarding me. If I was making fun of them, I need to be careful on the way they take it so they're not offended and it seems they don't do that for me. I couldn't find the basket this year and thought it should've been easy, but since I'm older I just kinda didn't care where it was or about looking for it.I checked all over, I gave it a fair go, and everywhere it could've been I checked. Cue my family thinking I need "problem solving skills" and telling me I'm being ridiculous. My mom was walking me through the house trying to "help" me by just telling me to check the places I checked and kinda treating me like child. She told me to look under a couch cushion for a basket, like why? Who would be able to hide something under a couch cushion? I obviously know it's not there because it's a basket for crying out loud, and got offended even more. It felt like I was just being made to look dumb, whether I was stupid enough to check, or whether I was fun-sucking enough not to. My parents told me that I ruined a fun game, and that they were just trying to help. Their demeanor during this just was really offensive and off to me, and while I get it's supposed to be fun, I feel like when someone isn't having fun being made fun of, the people making fun should stop making fun. I know they would expect me to be respectful if roles were reversed. Of course I explained how this whole thing made me feel and they turned it on me saying that they were trying to be nice and include me but to me it feels like narcissistic excuses to just not take accountability for offending me. It feels like I'm not being allowed to have feelings or express when I'm no longer happy with the jokes. They even brought up some other things that had nothing to do with Easter at all, it just seemed like they were trying to make excuses. It's not worth it to me to walk through the house and be talked down to like that. I asked them not to include me next year because to me it's not worth it to fight about something.

Am I wrong? I tried telling it as unbiased as I could, but clearly it's from my POV so it still could be. They have done lots of things I would consider narcissistic in the past, and frankly I'm only with them ATM so I can eventually get on my feet enough to move out and distance myself. I feel bad even thinking of it that way. And I understand that a big problem is probably that I'm a grown adult playing a child's game, but to me it was just until my younger siblings got older.