I love my husband but I honestly do not think he and I will last much longer. We have 1 child together and I have one from a previous relationship. We have been trying since 2018 to have another. No success. I have pcos so my body is a mess but it also doesn’t help when your spouse rarely wants to have sex. I have tried to express with him how it makes me feel and how I would like to have more sex. We have had this discussion over 10 times. He’s very well aware my thoughts on the topic and how it makes me feel. Nothing has changed. We are young. I’m 28 he’s turning 30 next month. This has been an issue since my daughter was born in 2016. We have sex 30-40 times in one year… I keep all that on this app so I know. We can go a month or longer with no sex. Normally we average twice in a month. I feel like he and I are friends who some times have sex. Being sexual or touchy feely has become super weird and awkward for me. Outside of a sexual relationship I’m comfortable with him. I am not comfortable being naked in front of him. I have asked him many times to talk to a doctor or a therapist about his suddenly low sex drive. Before my daughter we had sex a lot when he moved in with me. We couldn’t keep our hands off one another. Now I just feel like we are room mates. If the kids go to my moms over night which isn’t often he goes to his video games and I just watch tv. We have also went out to eat but sex isn’t a thing. I’ve become super depressed from this. When I bring it up to him he says “I want to have sex more but….” And gives a reason like “I didn’t feel good” “I was tired” he also has said we don’t have the time. I feel like if I live like this much longer I will regret staying and hate myself and maybe even him. I do not know how I could get a sex life with him. Clearly expressing how it has made me feel is not going to work. Having my mom take the kids over night does nothing either. I’m not happy in my marriage and I have not been for a long time.