I don't know how I'm to blame

My great aunt and uncle had passed away, their daughter so my great cousin? Took over their property but needed a camper they had sitting for 15 years to be moved. Well my husband and i got suckered into moving it because we are the only ones in the family who have a 5th wheel. The thing you need to haul the camper.

When we got there my great cousin told us we can either take it for ourselves, she has a place we can dump it at but they're going to charge her, or we can just do whatever we want with it. Well my dad who came with us talked this camper up to my husband so my husband had this great idea that we would keep it. I looked at it and saw nothing but a money pit, but whatever. I was losing that one.

So we take it home and it literally sat in our driveway for 6 months. At first I got a little excited to redo it, and got on board with it. But then we really got into it and because the camper was so old it would have to be completely gutted because of asbestos, there was mold or mildew, idk from a leak in the bathroom and the roof needed completely replaced. So it was indeed a money pit, one that I didn't feel like dumping money into it. And it was honestly kinda small for our family so it just wouldn't have been a keeper anyways. My husband also runs his own company and we just don't have the time for all that work!

So my husband finally seen it for what it was and agreed we could get rid of it. Well we looked into several junk yards near us and even 2 to 3 hours aways and none of them would take it. So my dad's friend decided that he would like it since he actually does do rv repairs and such. So I messaged my great cousin asking her if she would be ok with that, because we just don't have the time or money to put into it. She messaged me back and was kind of rude about it. Saying how she's disappointed that we couldn't get it to work out and how she really liked the fact it was going to stay in the family. And so I just wrote back apologizing again for it, and told her if we had the room for it and prices weren't so insane right now it would be no problem. And I asked her if my dad could get the title from her and she never responded.

Now fast forward to this week, we dropped the camper off to my dads friend and my dad goes to get the title and I guess my great cousin was a total beach about it towards him. And was saying how we let her down. And my dad even told her how it would be too small for us that we would of had to upgrade anyways and it was nothing personal but I guess she didn't like that.

So now I'm just confused. Did we actually do something wrong?? She was going to orginally junk it anyways! And if she wasn't ok with it she could have said. Instead she made it clear she was just unhappy with our decision to not keep it.

I have NO relationship with her. I'm sure I've seen her once or twice before but she's much older than me so even the times I have seen her it was probably when I was little and didn't care to talk to people I didn't know. Family or not.