How would you handle this? He was freaking out and throwing my shoes…he’s always pissy…

We were getting ready to go out to Home Depot. We just moved and there was a box that was full of our shoes. My boyfriend opened it and then started swearing “where the fuck are my shoes? I see everyone’s but mine. He started throwing my shoes out of the box and goes all I see are Ugg’s, fucking the ugliest shoes, these are getting thrown out…” and just continued to go on and on about how he couldn’t find his shoes.

I was just silent and ignoring him.

I went to put on our 3 year olds jacket and he goes “it’s fucking disgusting and dirty because no one washes anything so he’s not wearing it” it just has a bit of cream cheese on it from yesterday…I’m the only one that does the laundry? Again, I was silent and didn’t say a word or even look at him.

He just kept saying little things to me to try to start an argument I felt, but I just kept ignoring him. I don’t have the energy and I’m sick. He knows this.

We get in the car and drive to Home Depot (mind you our son looooves Home Depot he’s always so excited to go and his father (my boyfriend) knows this). So he parks and says “so we need ___ and ___ anything else? I just ignored him because the whole way he was moody again. I’m tired of how he acts. So he slammed the door and gets out, the doors were locked so he tries to open the side our son is on. So I unlocked it and because I didn’t do it fast enough he was mumbling something. I thought he was going to get our son, but nope he went to grab his sweater and then slammed the door and left. Our son was crying.

What would you do in this situation. I honestly don’t even want to speak to him. At LEAST for the rest of the day. He’s always pissed off and when he is it’s like everyone needs to be pissed off.