Lighting Crotch/Braxton Hicks

For the last few weeks I have been dealing with lighting crotch, it was tolerable but the last few nights it made me want to crumble to my knees and just start crying. I had it with my son but I don’t ever remember it being this bad, I also have been having Braxton hicks tonight I’m only 35 w 1d I’ve been measuring a week ahead since my 20w ultrasound not that it means anything but just wondering is anyone else dealing with it this bad and if so are you concerned about going into labor early? I’m still working full time and we are so not ready for this next little one to come yet but I’m a little worried with how I’ve been feeling the last few days. Thoughts? Anyone have any tips on how to relieve this, I took a bath tonight and the moment I got put it started again. 😩