Boyfriend and onlyfans

Before I started this im just looking for advice on how to help my boyfriend understand im not looking for people to tell be to dump him. When we have issues in our relationship we work on them to make us stronger.

When my boyfriend and I started dating, we were talking about only fans and he said “when I used to have it before I met you, I don’t anymore” I didn’t asked him he just said it. But last night we were talking about porn and only fans, honestly I am fine with porn I think it’s because it’s videos of people having sex and I said that then I said how I’m glad he doesn’t use onlyfans anymore. Well….. he still had an account and uses it. He deleted the account after I started crying which is good. But I can’t get it through to him, he doesn’t understand why I care about onlyfans and not porn.

I’ve told him that it makes me feel like I’m not good enough, he has sooooo many cheeky photos of me, digital and printed, I even did a naked photo shoot with my friend and he has all the photos. I told him I don’t understand why he would want to jerk of to other girls and he just says “ idk I’m sorry” which makes me feel worse. He keeps asking why porn is ok and onlyfans is different, but porn is video of sex and onlyfans is girls you subscribe to and jerk of to their photos.

I forgot to say this, but he doesn’t pay he used free subscriptions

How do I get it through to him???

UPDATE!!!!

We talked and he still doesn’t understand how onlyfans and porn are different. He sees them as the same because there is still porn on onlyfans. I have told him that on onlyfans you’re looking for a specific person and it has images when porn mostly sex, he says that it’s the same theses no difference. I still can’t get it through to him

Also reminder that he was fine deleting his account right now we are just trying to understand eachother