Bleeding - What would you do? 🥺

Long back story for this poll and TW - threatened miscarriage content. I was so excited to post that I made it to the second trimester. I’m 13 weeks as of today. But last night I went to the bathroom and wiped and saw red blood and two clots the size of a dime. Later I saw another small clot. I don’t have any cramping.

To make matters worse, I’m traveling out of state this weekend for my cousins wedding and don’t have access to our usual medical system. I called the advice nurse and they told me under what circumstances I should go to the emergency room (bleeding so much that I soak a pad in an hour, lightheaded or dizziness, shortness of breath, etc). Then they tried to book an OB appt for when I’m home on Monday but there were no appts at literally five large medical facilities in the area. They put an urgent email out to my OB and her office will call me Monday morning to see when they can squeeze me in. This morning, when I went to the bathroom, there was more red blood, probably about 2 tsp worth, but no clots and still no cramping. I’m still worried this is the beginning of the end for this pregnancy.

I’m supposed to go to my cousins wedding with 250 people tonight. Part of me just want to curl up in a ball and stay in my hotel room. Part of me wants to go (unless the bleeding gets a lot worse, obviously). Curious what you ladies would do?