Under appreciated

For those that have children, do you ever feel under appreciated? We had our first child in august after trying for 1.5 years. I gave birth after almost 41 weeks, tore, and required an additional procedure after 2 months to fix the tear because I had a reaction to the stitches and didn’t heal properly. All during this time, I had supply issues, my son was tongue tied, and every time I pumped (tried every 3 hours), I only got .5-1 oz per breast (leading to formula feeding) in addition to everything else you have to take care of post partum. I know my husband hasn’t walked in my shoes but he’s never once showed his appreciation in any way especially since I had some complications (didn’t expect a gift but words would work). The most I got from him was that he told me I was a “champ” giving birth naturally (my choice). Didn’t do anything special for Christmas or Valentine’s Day. He knows I’m all about the sentimental stuff so anything about our son would’ve been amazing. Does anyone else feel like they’re not getting credit where credit is due? I also take care of our son a few days a week because I work part time for child care purposes. During that time I try to do a lot of work around the house so my husband doesn’t have to but he shows no appreciation. Does anyone else feel this way? Is it just expected of women who give birth to deal with it? Sorry for the long post.