What to expect with counseling? Should I look for diff provider

I just had my first session with a counselor. My reason for coming is because of marital problems. I found my husband messaging girls over his phone. As far as I know, no actual meet ups or anything physical he was talking to girls from back home he would talk receive and send pictures and money and he was subscribed to only fans. I decided to stay because I truly believe he does love me and wants to keep our family together despite his fuck ups. I know how that sounds, trust me, I know.

I left him, I picked up our daughter told him I was leaving and was taking the baby and if he needed something or wanted to see her to let me know. He asked me to come back and promised change, swore he would stop and didn’t want to lose his family. Some months have passed and he honestly does seem to be trying as much and best as he can.

On the other hand I have been struggling. We can be good one second, the next I remember and think about everything and an argument starts. He forgets to pick up something from the store, I explode on him. A simple burp from him and I’m going off. I realize these things are not the cause of my anger and that it all triggers me because of what he’s done. And I want help in ways I can better handle my anger because I am the one after all who decided to stay.

Well, session is over. I felt as if the counselor did not listen to me. I briefly explained what had happened and he went on to tell me he wasn’t going to change. Seemed honestly a bit judgmental that I was 22 and having these problems. With the brief information I gave him he went on to ramble the same things for an hour with the small brief information I gave him without really letting me talk. I felt as all he did was give his personal and not professional opinion.

This is my first time going to any form of counseling. Scheduled a second session just because I’m not sure if it’s just me that’s was guarded up or if this guy isn’t the right fit.