40+4, nothing is making this baby come out 🫠

I’ve been eating dates, drinking raspberry leaf tea, and taking primrose oil for 3 weeks. My husband and I have been having sex 2 times a day for 4 weeks. I’ve been doing yoga, using my yoga ball, walking 3 miles a day. Eating healthy and staying hydrated. Yet here I am at 40+4 with 0cm dilated and my midwife could barely even reach my cervix. She also said he isn’t engaged or low in my pelvis, so it’s basically 100% induction now.

I’ve tried everything for weeks but my body just won’t, and I’m furious. I don’t get how some women so easily spontaneously go into labor, yet I’ve been trying everything under the sun for weeks and my body refuses to cooperate. It’s absolutely bullshit.

I’ve enjoyed pregnancy for the most part up until the last two weeks, and now it’s making me resentful and bitter about the whole thing, this child is now ruining my body, I can barely eat, I have headaches every day and I’m swollen from head to toe.