Am I wrong?

I will try to make this as short as possible… So my “ex best friend” and I have been friends since middle school. After graduating high school we partied almost every weekend/weekday lol. Well things got a little different when she moved out of state and got with a guy which is now her daughters father. I remember her asking, “what would you do if you came home to a sink full of dirty dishes on both sides of the sink” I simply answered “STOP COOKING” . She went on to explain how her boyfriend at the time didn’t work and blah blah blah… Since that day I didn’t hear from her for 5 years!!! Well, we reunited on Facebook and exchanged numbers so I asked her was the reason she stopped talking to me and her response was, “girl, tbh I can’t remember”… (that sounded like bs) but we caught up and she ended up telling me how she’s back in the same state I am in and telling me all of her drama about her child’s father EVERYDAY! She would call me EVERY SINGLE DAY bitching about him or another dude she’s met and never once gave me an opportunity to vent IF I NEEDED too. It was just all about her.

One day, she asked if I could babysit and I told her no because of my work schedule. Guess what??? She ghosted me again for a year!

She hit me up on Facebook messenger saying “long time no speak and asked if I wanted to link for lunch” I told her no because at this point wtf is going on with her. Apparently she has already deleted my number hence why she’s using messenger to contact me.

Thoughts???