32 and JUST had my first orgasm

For all these years I thought I was orgasming. I never used any kind of toys because most of my boyfriends' had issues with it and said their dick should be enough. I recently started dating one of my life long friends. He's 29 and such a shy person. He's always been quiet. In high school he wouldn't talk in the group. I was the one who he would whisper in my ear and talk for him. He has only had one girlfriend on his whole life and lost his virginity at 26! I realized that we do have feelings for each other. He's a very... Idk the right words for it... Sexually shy ig. He feels embarrassed buying condoms. He doesn't like taking his shirt off during sex and doesn't like blow jobs because he feels it makes him cum too quickly. I'm trying to help him with his self esteem and being less shy about sexuality. Yesterday we had sex for the first time and OMFG! I don't mean this in a mean way but with how shy he is. Only been with one girl. Lost his virginity at 26. I never expected him to be THAT great at sex. He's not super big. 4 inches but he works it so well! His tongue game though! He did tell me he doesn't really like oral but will do it once in a blue moon. This was that blue moon. And wow! Fucking wow. Its a shame he doesn't like it that much because his tongue came is GREAT! I came! I squirted. My toes curled to the point they CRAMPED!! And how well he used his dick! Oh lord! I came a total of 5x with him. I wanted to give him the sucking of a life but he's still pretty shy about stuff done to himself. But I can't believe this whole time I thought o was orgasming by these more experienced guys who had been with sooo many women. I hope he let's me repay the favor soon.