This really hurt my feelings

I was scrolling through tiktok and saw the abc date trend where each date you go on with your SO you base it off the letters of the alphabet so A y’all could go to Applebees or an arcade, B could be bowling, etc. I told my husband we should start doing it cause it looks like it could be fun and we never go out without our daughter and have us time. He answered me all annoyed and said “with what time and what babysitter?” Both of our mothers have always told us they’d be more than happy to watch her for us and have even called us on random weekends asking if they can have her over for a bit. I’m annoyed and my feelings are a bit hurt because he could’ve just said he doesn’t wanna go on dates with me anymore. Always an excuse.

I’m not even saying we should go out and spend money Willy nilly. There are so many things we could do like paint, watch movies at home while the baby is at my moms or my MIL’s. We could get fast food and find a nice place to sit and eat. But he always finds an excuse not to. Like I understand he works a lot and weekends are the only times he can spend with both me and my daughter but sometimes I feel like he doesn’t really care. I’m not jealous of his relationship with my daughter by any means. I love their relationship. But I feel like he neglects ours. Says that at night once she’s in bed, that’s “our” time but it’s us watching our tv show and him falling asleep 10mins into it.