Am I the AH?!

So last night from 6:30p.m to 10:45 p.m I set up our dining room and front entrance for my sister in laws graduation party. My husband slept on the sofa and watched. I told my husband to 1. Get the guest bathroom ready 2.remove your shaving stuff and face wash and lotion etc. (He goes to the guest bathroom for the mornings because he gets up at 4a.m) I told my husband last night to remove his items so that in the morning I can quickly clean the counter tops toilet and shower before I leave for work. He didn't do it. I go into the bathroom this morning and there is his stuff laying out. Towel hung up and clothes were on the floor. I text him and said "good morning I hope the graduation goes well but I'm upset. I asked you X amount of times to clean your stuff up and you didn't. And that's the only thing I asked for you to do." He replied with "I was going to do it when I come home with my parents and siblings and then just clean it up quickly" and I told him "I get that but I asked if you could clean it up before hand so I could wiped down surfaces" he got upset and said it wasn't a big deal 🙄🤦 am I the AH for getting upset?!