So annoyed with this dude

So my boyfriend has been skipping work almost once a week he was sick a couple weeks ago for 2 weeks. And still went to his second job which is part time but missed his full time job. Then the weekend of Fourth of July comes & that Monday he got shut faced he missed Tuesday. Then that same Saturday he didn’t go to work to his part time job cause he was hungover . Lately he’s been either missing from his full time job or he’ll not go to his second job. And it’s due to him going out . I’m so tired of it he is the provider for our family. But then he complains about not having money. Well if he went to work he wouldn’t be complaining . I don’t know how much we have because we don’t have joint accounts. I don’t work I am a SAHM. Yes I have my own bank account but the only time I’m sent money is to pay bills or if I’m going to do something with someone who is picking me & my daughter up. Then these passed 2 days he didn’t go to his full time job. He missed Wednesday because the night before he was at his friends house getting drunk. Then today he said he was going to call the dr to see about his ingrown toe but didn’t go. He did go to his part time job for 2 hours and that was it. And we did errands after that. So when we got home he had a little attitude & told me tomorrow I need to clean our house but yet these 2 days he was here didn’t do shit. Instead of picking up and organizing like I usually do he didn’t do any of it. Our stove was nice & clean & he made food and didn’t bother on cleaning it. I feel like I’m picking up after another kid. He only cleans up or cleans when he tired of looking at something or if it’s been dirty and I haven’t cleaned it but I refuse to pick up after him now. For example I clean the bathroom sink & the next day it’s filthy from him brushing his teeth & leaving blood or tooth paste in the sink. The bathroom floor can be clean & there will be piss on the floor it’s nasty & im tired of it.