my boyfriend and i have been in a relationship for 10 years. we have 3 kids together ages 5,3,&1. im a stay at home mom because i don’t have a babysitter and he wont babysit on his days off or when hes off. He got a new job making $50/hr. recently. ever since getting that job hes been really mean to me and says hurtful things. he says i shouldnt be tired because all i do is stay home. today i had a migraine and he said its because i dont do anything so when i try to do something ut makes my head hurt. my migraine was really bad and i said no to sex today, he insulted me said im a piece of shit that my family are all pieces of shit. he lives in my family’s house btw. that i dont work im not shit and my only job is to have sex with him when ever he wants and i cant say no cuz hes the one working. we got into a little argument because i asked him to stop talking like that he spit at me i spit back then he slapped me, i called the police they never showed up. he left because he didnt want the police to get him, an hour later he comes back saying im all he has. and im still mad so he gets angry and starts saying mean things in tell him to leave he says he’s not leaving and that i better be ready to have sex. im not even allowed sex days off when im on my period. im hurt im heartbroken i dont have the support i need. my mom being the only person who i can count on passed away 11 months ago, and im not even allowed to cry cuz im a grown ass woman according to him, i put up with him cuz i dont have someone to watch my kids and he wont leave