I am really tired to be in my relationship , I feel like it’s going now where and am drained.

My boyfriend of 4years it’s been one and same complaints,that there’s no communication and also I never call,text or visit his family of which am the one who always text them and if I don’t they won’t . He’s also been sending me text messages that wasn’t meant for me and will only realise it later like the other day he said I should use the car he asked his friend to give me the day of my birthday which wasn’t me . Am just tired of the relationship am feeling depressed