Husband frustrations

My husband has been so frustrating lately.

It’s been nice enough to sleep with the windows open, but he runs hot.

I’ve told him about a million times that I’m comfortable with the windows open, but if he gets too hot to turn on the air conditioner.

Every morning I wake up and he’s grumpy because he was too hot last night. I have to remind him again that he could have turned on the air conditioning. He makes it seem like it was my fault he was too hot.

He’s also been snoozing his alarm a bunch of times, sleeping in and then is in a rush in the mornings getting ready for work. He gets grumpy because I haven’t ironed the shirt I didn’t know he wanted to wear, he’ll forget his clothes downstairs, forget his keys somewhere and expect me to know where they are, and will be grumpy all morning.

He’ll always text when he’s at work and apologize for being grumpy, but it literally happens every morning.

I’ve tried giving him so many suggestions to make him feel less rushed, but he never takes my advice.

Debating if I should be petty and stop doing all of the things I normally do to help him out, or if I should just try and read his mind and do more for him so he’s not so grumpy and rushed.