Am I wrong? Friend requesting I give her months of my work for free

I’m a new homeschooling mom. The overcrowded and understaffed school in my district was not accommodating my son’s special needs and since I actually an education degree, I felt like I could successfully homeschool him.

So, this was decided last year. I met this woman down the street and she had similar sentiments for her own son who has autism. We became fast friends and our children are best friends too now!

All summer I have been planning our school year. I thought she was doing the same. I planned just how I did when I was in the schools teaching. Well, school started last week for us and she did not start, because I didn’t “give her the curriculum”. This is what she texted me. I feel taken advantage of and like this is not my responsibility? I put so many hours of my time, not to mention money, into my plans. Why should I give her these things? I don’t mine sharing resources but no, this is way more than that! Am I wrong? This is our text convo this morning and she did not respond further.

For the record, my curriculum is actually for sale via TPT. I get paid for it and have been creating content for years.