Feeling stressed

I know I keep posting about dogs in here but honestly I’m not too sure where else to get advice from real people lol. So sorry to anyone getting annoyed with my dog posts. So I’ve been beyond stressed for the past few weeks, so a little back story, our frenchie passed a couple weeks ago suddenly and unexpectedly. It’s been hard on all of us, my 10 year old has been struggling and my 3 year old has been a huge jumble of strong emotions and acting out since we lost him. My husband wants to get another dog to fill that void. I obviously do to but when the time is right not too soon. His parents train and breed dogs for a living, they train dogs in protection sport and have offered to gift us a puppy from any of the breeders they know. Only issue is these puppies are either mastiffs, pitbulls, Staffies, dobermans, or Belgian Malinois. I’m not against any of those breeds and all I’ve met have been absolute sweet hearts but I will admit I’m afraid of bigger dogs, especially ones that specialize in protection sport. We live in a small condo, no yard, and we have a 3 year old and 10 year old. I work in a hospital and I see way too many cases of dog attacks on small

Children and I just don’t feel comfortable getting any of the breeds my husband wants. I’ve tried talking to him a few times and he just disregards my concerns. He says he will get what he wants and if I want a smaller dog I can get my own. We honestly don’t have room for a big dog, we’re a family of 4 living in a 2 bedroom condo. Our frenchie was perfect as he was small, low maintenance, and had amazing patients with my kids. I told my husband I’d be constantly worried one of the kids would get bit or attacked as it can happen even with a family pet and he told me

He had no sympathy for my concerns as he grew up with big dogs and never once got bit. I feel like I’m losing this battle and it’s stressing me out. I’m not sure what else to do at this point. It’s me against his entire family.