Ever since 2nd baby came (Oct of last year) I’ve had 0, zip, nada sex drive.

My husband on the other hand wants it all the time.

Well I wake up with the baby throughout the night because for some reason he doesn’t want to sleep through the night anymore. Then I’m up early like some days 6, some 7, I’m lucky to sleep to 8:30. We also have a 2.5 year old.

All day one of them is clung to me. I go to shower and the toddler always wants to join or my husband is in there complaining that the baby is fussy and he can’t figure out why.

I say I need more me time or alone time and my husband takes that as I hate being a mother and a wife and I want to be single. No it means I want a little time by myself when I don’t have someone constantly wanting to sit, pull or have me do something for them.

Today my husband took off to his dads for a couple hours, came home said he was going to run to the store and now he plans on going and hanging out with my dad. I told him to “go do you boo-boo”

I’m annoyed because he can take off and go wherever and whenever he wants, but if I try to even go get my hair done he’s blowing up my phone because he can’t handle the kids.

I honestly don’t know if I want this marriage anymore. He’s constantly telling me what I need to work on to make him happier, yet if I ask for him to do something it’s the end of the world.