Why do I attract men who dont want kids ?

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I feel like I attract men who don’t want kids me and my last bf broke up because of differences and I am seeing another guy now who doesn’t want kids right now . I’m 25 and I don’t want to wait anymore (if you’re going to say 25 is too young to want kids, please save it. I have my own place a good paying job etc. I would be fine.) It seems like every guy I talk to doesn’t seem to want kids and they get frustrated with me when it up like I’m a crazy person-like no I just know what my goals are in terms of family/marriage. Men are lucky in the fact they don’t have to worry too much about biological clocks-women on the other hand tend to get less fertile around their 30s and if I want to have multiple children, I don’t think I should wait until then.

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I understand you, but also, I wouldn’t want to have kids with someone I just started dating.

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It doesn’t sound like he never wants children it’s sounds like you are rushing things. You really should be ATLEAST in a stable long term relationship with someone before even thinking about kids.

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Ya if you’re saying “I’m 25 I wanna have kids this year” I think every person is right for turning you down. You shouldn’t be having kids with people you don’t know. Life goals should absolutely be discussed early on. However, there’s a difference between making sure you both want kids in the future, and wanting kids now.

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Long term goals are important to share but are you discussing wanting children in the early stages of dating? 
Also, plenty of women have no issues getting pregnant in their 30’s.

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You have like 15 - 20 years left before your biological clock stops ticking. So where are you running to? Slow down otherwise you will surely meet the wrong guy to have kids with. You want a guy that thinks tjings through and doesn't rush things. And not the one that says yes to everything just to please you.

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Well do u even need men? I mean if u want to have kids ok it's great (and also my goal till me being 25, yesss) but usually people want and need pretty much time to be ready as a couple to have children get married etc. If don't really need it, go have a sperm donor. Because I'm not sure that even if u find smb who will with u to have kids just right now (!) u will have good relationship with them after

Why do I attract men who dont want kids ?

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