after mc anxiety

i found out i was pregnant two weeks ago after trying for 6 months i was so happy and excited until i started spotting i felt something was wrong & i went to the er and they assured me everything was fine but a follow up to my ob turned everything upside down . he told me it seems i'm miscarrying and i was devastated i got the bad news a week after the good and it's been so rough . my husband wants to try again once it's possible and i'm terrified to go through this again i feel anxious every day just thinking about it everyone says it'll be ok just try again like it's not a big deal i don't know i do want to but im so scared 😭