Husband and baby

I just had my first baby 4 weeks ago.

I feel as though my husband does not like our daughter. We tried for her and both wanted her but I was definitely the one who wanted her more. I figured after she was born he would fall in love but it just hasn’t been the case.

I’m not concerned about her safety with him or anything like that serious at all. I can just tell he just isn’t bonded with her. He never offers to hold her or anything. He only holds and helps with her when I ask him to. He says he loves her but I just can tell there is a disconnect. It hurts me because I feel so connected to her, it almost makes me feel less connected to him, not feeling him connect with her. If that makes sense. She is also not a difficult baby at ALL. I wake up with her a few times at night to breastfeed but besides that she sleeps through the night too.

Has anyone else been through this and it’s gotten better? Is there anything to help?