*no hate pls just need to vent*

I feel like I made a mistake marrying so young. Honestly I've said it before if my husband hadn't joined the army of course I wouldn't have gotten married at 19.

Our relationship is more like friends now, I know he would never want to end it but more than anything I am thinking about myself, I don't want to be forced to stay in a relationship that I don't want to be in. I'm just afraid of what it'll do to him, what my family will think that I just "gave up". I've tried talking my feelings out but he NEVER listens, he always puts his or his friends needs over mine, cannot clean for the life of him, constantly nagging about why I'm not "in the mood" and I tell him that it's me, I'm not comfortable walking around the house naked like he is, and the nagging just makes it worse because I always just give in and it's not enjoyable. I just contacted a therapist to get some help for my self, but in the meantime, do any of you regret it? or if you did get divorced (not due to cheating or abuse) were people supportive of bettering yourself?