Self masterbation

Nichole

I have been self masterbating for years with a bullet on the clit and no penitration but recently over the last few months, I have been bleeding dark red to brown blood. Not enough to need a pad but enough to show up after every time I pee that day. My OB doesn't seem to concerned but am in a new relationship and we haven't had sex yet. Wandering if it might be a turn off for him thinking he hurt me or if something really could be wrong?