So, I am divorced from my abuser and generally if anyone asks why I am divorced I tell them he cheated. It seems to keep peoples curiosity at bay, they dont ask more questions.

He did cheat. But he also beat the living shit out of me. He locked me in the house we had with no way of getting out. He locked me outside with no means of water in the hottest day in the summer and I was naked. He threw me out in the garden at night naked. He counted the change when I went shopping and compared it to receipts. He had me as a stepford wife entertaining his colleagues with 5 course home made meals. He raped me multiple times. He shared me with his friends on occasion but the only thing I can actually admit to people in mh normal life is...

He cheated on me.

Is that normal?