Need Help

I need to get off of my moms insurance but they told me that I have to contact my mother in order to take me off. We don’t talk.. I don’t have contact with her because she’s just toxic honestly and I just know she wouldn’t do it anyways because she wants me to be connected to her, I even found out recently she actually has access to a lot of my info that they said she wouldn’t when I previously contacted them. My daughter is being born next month and I want her under my separate insurance, I just don’t trust my mom and I don’t know if she can but I don’t want to take the chance of her seeing my daughters social security number because she WILL use it (she used my niece’s when she was 2) *Dont know which group to post in* lol