Can men be truly monogamous ?

So I’m very liberated/open minded and everything but there are times when I wonder if men can actually dedicate themselves to their partner. Do you think that their are men who can feel content with one person emotionally and sexually? Or do men just care about the sex? Do they prefer not to be tied down ? Does sex rule their world ? Is this even a man thing or is it just the way society makes it seem ? Cause women cheat too. But these are just random thoughts I have.. and even when men claim to love their partner what causes them to cheat ? Is it the sex? Do they just act on impulse? Is this a man thing or a lack of maturity? Are their men that can just have eyes for one women and keep it that way ? Men who don’t check out other girls? Men who don’t sexualize women ? Men who feel nothing sexual for anyone else but their partner? Men who’s love and faithfulness can last forever? Or is this just the way we all are and society just makes it seem like it’s a male thing because for a women to think/do this is considered “wrong”? Or should we accept a man who doesn’t want anything monogamous because that’s how they all are ? These are just random deep thoughts I have .