What are your thoughts about 3sums?

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What are your thoughts on threesomes? My partner and i are thinking of trying it out and he said it won’t be awkward afterwards. Lol please give any tips or advices you have on this topic! Also if you have done it please talk about it.

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You could literally go into the search engine and look up threesomes on this app and you will see every con about it.
Have the possibility of Man or woman falling in love with the person they invited in  out of love with their partner.
You have the possible threesome baby.
You have the jealousy problem where man or woman thinks a partner had more fun having sex with the person they invited in.
You have the rule breakers that will break every single rule that was created for the threesome and then the whole relationship just messed up.
You got the toxic relationship that became toxic because of the threesome.
Threesomes are very bad idea  can cause a lot of problems for relationship.

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Simple…. Don’t do it.

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I have had more than average amount of threesomes in the past. 
Being the one in the relationship and being the additional. 
Communication is key.
Boundaries are key.
In my honest opinion, pick a stranger, then no mixed feelings.

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I believe it can ruin a relationship completely and create insecurities in a partner. I personally do not agree with them.

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Personally I would not do that. Just inviting disaster lol

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There needs to be VERY firm and clear boundaries agreed upon. So really think about it. Personally, it’s a hard pass for me but different strokes for different folks 🤷🏻‍♀️

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My husband and I have had 2 so far and we will have more in the future I'm sure. We had one with a guy and one with a girl. They are so much fun! 
Just make sure you both want to do it 100% and talk about boundaries before hand.

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Only partners who are VERY secure in their relationship should be doing this! Definitely make sure you feel safe with your significant other and communicate. Insecure, unstable people/relationships should not attempt! I would say most women I know don’t trust their men/are insecure or do not have a secure enough relationship to do this with their man. I do know a lot of poly couples and very open individuals though and they are the happiest, healthiest relationships I’ve ever witnessed. Always do it for YOU, it’s a bonus that you both want to try a new experience but do not be persuaded if your soul is truly uncomfortable or doesn’t feel safe with your partner. Make sure you’ve done the work in your relationship and this is just going to be an added bonus life experience you share together in the journey of life, growth and exploration :) also, you can change your mind. Set boundaries and I would personally not do it with a random bc I crave security and safety in relationships but to each their own. I need to have a good vibe and feel safe so generally for me it has to be someone I know pretty well. I have had some group play a couple times with ppl I didn’t know well but being with a friend I love and trust with my life makes me feel safer. Obviously my best friend isn’t going to steal my man. If we discuss and choose to have an experience it will be talked about (boundaries and such). I have a lot of sexually deviant friends so they’re down for sex but they’re definitely not trying to steal someone’s love! Again, do it to ADD to experience/life, not to appease your partner or try to save a relationship. Discuss your concerns, thoughts, worries, positives and negatives with your partner. If you choose a random I would say it’s best to at least meet up beforehand. Again, I crave good vibes, connecting and safety so if I chose someone off a site I would ask to maybe all meet up for a drink/food and see if we hit it off. If you’re inviting another girl and want extra safety/security it might not be a bad idea for you and the other female to maybe have a girl date and bond a little to ease you into feeling more comfortable inviting another into your room. Then you can decide from there if it’s something you would like to give a try and discuss concerns with the 3rd. You should always feel safe and secure and like you have the option to ease into things or even change your mind! Best of Luck!!!

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I’ve known 3 couples who have threesomes and it only didn’t cause problems with one of them because the girlfriend was bisexual so she had equal stakes. The others it bred resentment and jealousy and even ruined a marriage. I know some people can, but personally I could never because I know I am NOT that chill and I am not open. You just have to know your boundaries and make sure it’s something you really want to do and not something you’ve talked yourself into wanting.

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Overrated. Better left as fantasy

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