My husband sucks with sex. I feel like it’s more so with pleasuring himself then it is me.

Before sex, he’s usually like, “BJ? Handjob?” And I literally roll my eyes on the inside. Of course I don’t do it because at the end, he’s the one that always finishes.

It’s been years since he fingered me. He goes down on me sometimes but rarely ever.

After he’s done, he moans and holds me hostage and says, “I’m done”

I literally cry inside. Thinking, again? I’m literally turned on and wanting a orgasm like he gets EVERY TIME we have sex. It’s not fair. I tried explaining to him and he says, “well, I get tired.”

Sec isn’t exciting, it seems like a chore….