So my last son was a shoulder dystocia baby. He got stuck and everything, they had to do cpr on him. He was only 7lbs 3oz when he came out.

I’m pregnant with my second son by a much larger man after 5 years. I am with a different obgyn. But I feel like they are not taking my last pregnancy or my concerns nearly as serious. I’m 36w and she keeps telling me she’s gonna check to see how much the baby weights on the ultrasound machine and see how big my widen is. Basically to see if he can come through. And see how long his shoulder width is as well. She’s been saying this since I was 34w. Everytime I come in she just looks at me feels on my tummy ask if he moves and that’s it. She also gets my weeks mixed up sometimes when I go in and I have to correct her. She told me if baby is to big they will have to perform a csection at 37 weeks. That’s next week. How will they even determine that if she never checks me properly.

I also been addressing major migraines for weeks and she just tells me to eat and drink better. I drink water all day 3x meals and snacks btw that is not the issue here. I have my apt today and I’m not excited. I feel like I’m having this baby blindly again like I did with my first.

I had an unmedicated natural birth with my first and it was painful due to him being stuck and the doctor having to stick his hand up there to help him come thru.