Miscarriage at 12 weeks 3 days

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I lost my baby last week at 12 weeks 3 days. I saw their heart beat at 8 weeks and everything looked ok on ultrasound. I then went to er last monday due to some very light bleeding and found out baby’s heart had stopped. I miscarried at home last tuesday. I saw my baby and the placenta. Shortly after I hemorrhaged and was rushed to er by ambulance. The doctor was able to do a very uncomfortable pelvic exam removing clots from cervix to slow the bleeding. I am still bleeding and passing smaller clots now a week later. I want the bleeding to stop.

My husband and I wanted another baby so badly, but I am scared. I want to be ready physically and mentally to try again. When is too soon to try?