Do you sometimes have sex with your SO, not because you want to have sex but because you feel like you have to?

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Not because I have to, no. But I also believe in responsive desire so I give it a chance.

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My husband had never made me feel bad for not wanting to have sex. But yes, mentally sometimes I feel obligated if it’s been awhile. But that’s a “me” problem,

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Yes I have sex with my husband when I don’t feel like it because I love him and I want to please him and I want him to be happy. We have been together 28 years. He dies things for me he doesn’t want to do also like work, clean, mow the lawn. He tries to keep me happy also.

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There are times I don't want to but I do becuase there are times when he dosent want to he does. 
We operate with the mindset that we are married and obviously each other's only outlet. We are separate people who will at times not align in terms of wanting sex. We choose to give to one another freely when feasible. Obviously if one of us is sick or exhausted or it's otherwise not prudent to do....we don't, but it's all systems go otherwise.

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Not because I "have to" but because I know it'll benefit both of us as a couple. We came to an agreement that he would give me more affection outside the bedroom and help out more withought being asked and I would try to initiate more. I have a lower sex drive than him so he was getting turned down constantly and it was affecting us. So he agreed to ask less of an everyday type of thing and I initiate more. For me it was the actual starting of something. Once I started I'd enjoy it but I didn't even want to start so I got over that and now we are both happy with our sex life. If you do it because "you have to" or its your "obligation as a wife" some say you'll start to not enjoy it and resent your partner. There's has to be a conversation and actions both of you can take to help you guys be at a good place mentally to connect physically.

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Uhhh no. Sometimes I will say I’m overcome with laziness and I get into it really heavy after the fact.
But my husband respects when I don’t wanna have sex. He is tired just as much as I am.

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Yes BUT it’s not a bad thing for me, I always end up enjoying myself. Sometimes when I’m not in the mood for sex bc I’m stressed, it turns out to be the thing I needed! Some good sex can really destress you…

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No. No one HAS TO have sex with anyone
 Married or not. I have sex with my husband when I want too, or when he wants too. I know I don't have too.

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Never. On the rare occasion I'm not in the mood my husband is more than happy to cuddle. Off in not in the mood my husband has no desire to try and make me get in the mood as he would much rather I be just as invested as he is.

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No. I wouldn’t have sex with someone just to keep them happy. I have sex because I want to.

Do you sometimes have sex with your SO, not because you want to have sex but because you feel like you have to?

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