How did you and your SO decide when it was a good time to try for a baby? It is the only major issue that my husband and I have! It is breaking me that I can't have one. We have been married for almost a year (December) and I want a baby so bad. I'm 25 and he is 23. I just don't want this to be a problem anymore, but no matter what, we disagree. I told him I'm done trying at 29 and absolutely refuse to have a baby at 30+ (personal reasons). I just don't know what to do. We even have a plan on how to make it work, he just wants to wait a little over 1 year and a half more than I do. But, like I said, it is breaking me...to the point of crying almost daily about it.

Also, my family/friends are constantly asking me when I'm planning on having a baby and I have to lie and say something like "we are just waiting".

That's because if I tell the truth "I'm waiting on *insert husband's name*, he gets mad and asks "why would you say that?" To which I always answer "because it is the truth".

EDIT!

We can't compromise, we have tried. He says he moves and I don't...but that's not true, I wanted to be done having kids by 25 before I met him, I have completely changed my entire mindset.