My MIL has been going a bit crazy since she found out we’re expecting. She says she’s going to be outside of the delivery room waiting to hear the baby cry and then she’s coming in.

She always refers to the baby as her grandbaby and never by her name. Always asks me how her grandbaby is and never how I’m doing. She even had her friend make a super cute wooden sign with baby’s name and I thought she would have it made for us to put in our nursery but no, she had it made for her house.

She has PTO that she has to use by the end of the year and she says she’s gonna wait until the baby’s born to use it so she can be around everyday.

She also lives in front of us so I can totally see her coming down to the house everyday and “checking in”. I don’t even want my own parents coming over everyday, unexpected, because this is going to be a huge adjustment and I just want my husband and I to bond with baby.

Now she’s having a “Nana Shower” which is basically a baby shower for her where everyone brings gifts for her house for the baby.

This is weird to me. I feel like she’s really overbearing and going to want to be apart of every second once the baby’s here. I’m sure my husband and I are going to need help every now and then but I don’t want to feel pressured.

Am I wrong for feeling this way? Idk how to feel about it.