Trouble orgasming

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Viviana

I’ve been having sex with my boyfriend for almost a year and I haven’t orgasmed not once. He finds it weird how I haven’t finished and we’ve been having sex for almost a year. I know it’s a lot harder for some women to finish and I know I’m one of them. I enjoy the sex but is there any tips you guys might have on finishing? Please let me know!

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Le

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Most women don't orgasm from penetration alone. You should try stimulating your clitorus during the act or having him do it. Try different positions that may help to stimulate your clit during the act. Or even invest in toys.I feel the need to mention that bringing toys into the act doesn't have anything to do with his performance, because most guys don't realize a lot of women can't come from penetration, so he might feel threatened by the suggestion. It's simply to enhance your pleasure, and in turn, it will enhance his as well. Just because you haven't reached an orgasm doesn't mean you aren't having fun. I wouldn't recommend using a clitorus stimulator every time because the clit is a very sensitive bundle of nerves. Using toys too often could cause you too lose sensation from being overly stimulated. And it could also be that you're both trying too hard to reach that goal. Overthinking it can hinder you from reaching "the big o." For women, it's more mental than physical that helps us get there. Try to focus on just having fun and see if anything changes. Introducing things like dirty talk, etc. into the mix to see if that helps as well. If that's not the problem, then try any of the methods I suggested above. Good luck!

L.

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Have you introduced clitoral stimulation Most woman can’t orgasm from penetration So try that and see how it works

Ca

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Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Penetration isn’t enough.