Today I learned that my (almost) ex husband who walked out on me while pregnant has joined the army.

We were such an amazing couple. Planneed for a baby. He wanted one more than me to be honest. I got pregnant during the beginning of the pandemic. He was soo happy, or atleast showed he was..

One day, out of the damn blue while I was 4 months pregnant.. I learned he may have been cheating. We talked about it and he didnt want to talk, took his passport and flew away.

I was so confused…. still am. Left alone in a city that I moved to for HIM, to support HIM.

And now he left me just like that. I gave him my whole heart and world and needless to say I was in therapy for a LONG TIME after this.

My son and I are doing amazing now (knock on wood!). Got our own place. Very happy.

He used to be an accountant,, so this is very sudden.

I wish my almost ex husband (going thru divorce) nothing but the best still. He hurt me very deeply. But I still hope he is safe out there.