Hey, I’m Dee. Me and my boyfriend where together for about a year and a month maybe? And we act just broke up like 2 days ago. Let me give you some back ground info- so me and him started dating last year on October 6, and everything was fine and he was so sweet and caring and always wanted to talk, and I loved thst, I loved him. But gradually he didn’t wanna talk as much and because of that I would ask if he still wanted to be in a relationship with me and he would respond with yes of course I love you I’m just busy, and then the day before father day we hung out all day and then dropped him off at a pool( he was hanging out with friends after which I thought was nice since he put me before his friends?) and then the next day he go ignored me completely, I find out that he cheated on me at the pool with one of his coworkers, and we broke up and it was really hard on me because on the phone when we were breaking up he said he felt like I had fored him into doing sexual things with me, which isn’t true!!! Because everytime we had sex I would always ask if he wanted to or if he was sure and he would always be the one to instigate having sex. Anyway, we were broken up for about a month and then we got back together and things were different he wwant as sweet as he was befor and if we where walking he would kinda shove me if that makes sense and he has hit me in the face a few times but not hard!. Then we broke up two more times, the last time was because his family said I’m toxic because I asked his sister if he was cheating on me again and when she said yes I asked him about it. So apparently I’m toxic for asking valid questions.

Anyway, is that considered abuse? My mom said he controls and manipulates me but idk